Day's Say .8

A reply from ISM to someone asking from a comment section if doing it after marriage is most acceptable or the other way:

Set aside such expectations regarding the opposite's features and the cultural and spiritual matters. Regardless of being male or female, of believing or not, of philosophy, and of nationality, waiting for marriage or commitment brings so much positivity unless one does not let this positive energy come. One cannot just do something or does not have the right with somebody he/she is not sure of and is not committed to, for it would not be a good feeling and leads to really serious and even threatening things like disease, disorder, ailment, addiction, abuse, conflict, nightmare, impurity, big responsibilities and bad examples to others and especially oneself. Think of it as one should really care about the effects and welfare, and it is not about people's judgments, the (saddening) majority, mere wants and personal control. This is not a means to scare people but of justification on consequences of something life-changing like this activity. Also, if one asks "How are things going to be done in marriage without experience?", the simple yet serious answer is a person shall learn on his/her new chapter of life on the process. It is studying and analysis before tasks.